Dating an AssholeJack’s Inner Brat
Dating an asshole, is like dating a child. Don’t expect him to be grateful when you do something nice for him, don’t expect him to do anything nice for you and don’t expect him to be happy when good things happen to you.
He really has limited sight, he has no parepherals, unless something effects him directly… he doesn’t care.
I got a promotion this week. I was just ooozing with glee, so excited… I came home just giddy and smiley. Jack turns around from his computer (no he didn’t even have the courtesy to stand…), he said “hi”.
After I texted him my good news, it still register for him. Then we stepped outside for a cigarette. I tell him about all the positive things my future boss had to say about me and Jack responded about his business…
What I found sad, is I called it. I told one of my coworkers about my news and she replied “Did you tell Jack yet?”
I said “no”. She said ” Think he’s gonna be excited for you?” Me -”probably not”
It is really sad that my boyfriend of 27 has the maturity of a 7 year old, and not the good kind either. My asshole boyfriend’s sensitivity is equivalent to a 7 year old BRAT and my drunk asshole boyfriend is the equivalent of taking care of 1 year old….
Is it really pathetic, I have to be happy for myself? I have to tell my bf what to do…”take me out for drinks for my promotion”, “make hotel reservations for valentine’s day”, “try to be happy when good things happen to me”…
Yep, it’s pathetic. Dating this asshole is pathetic.
Wow…he seriously is an asshole…question is though why are you with him if you know he is like that. They don’t get any better…trust me. Find yourself someone who will think of you before you need to tell him. Great post by the way.